There are many ways to go about talking to men, and as long as you shake the nerves off, it becomes easier with experience. For those who are not yet as adept as others when it comes to talking to men, here are some tips to help you progress through the conversation.

Let him talk

Though there are only a few men who have a habit of talking in a detailed and chatter-like manner similar to women, they still love to talk about themselves. This is normal because almost everyone loves hearing good things about themselves, and for this to happen, they have to tell others about their own stories.

However, when you ask questions, don’t venture into territories such as his finances. The last thing that you want to happen is to be branded as a gold digger, when you were actually just trying to get to know him.

Say your piece, don’t prattle

Telling stories is the most practiced way that humans interact and relate with each other. However, this doesn’t mean that the styles by which men and women talk to each other are the same.

In addition, it also doesn’t mean that either gender appreciates the other’s methods. For instance, you’ve heard women complain about how their men seem to always relay messages in grunts or one-syllable sounds.

Men, on the other hand, are not too keen on how women can stretch a story to a few minutes, when they could have answered with a single “Yes.”

The key to talking to men without turning them off is to find the balance between how the two of you operate. When you tell your story, be aware of how he may receive your story. He’ll appreciate it more if you can communicate with him at his level.

Laugh—even if it’s only a little funny

Most men assume that they can easily make a woman laugh with his antics. This is because they feel that they are able to make women happy even just by cracking a joke.

While this applies to most men, it doesn’t necessarily mean that all men have this ability. But for women, it shouldn’t be the time to show him that reality bites.

Face it, men have their egos. If you don’t laugh at their jokes, even just a little bit, they would feel like you don’t get their humor, and assume that you won’t get along together.

Just make sure that you don’t overdo it. They love the attention, but if it’s a little too much and a little too fake, they may feel insulted with your indulgence.

Never lie

Ever. It’s one of the golden rules in dating and in maintaining relationships. Once you tell a lie and it gets caught, chances are, he’ll never take your word for it again.

If you feel like stepping your game up a notch because he doesn’t seem too impressed with you, don’t do it. Show him your other qualities. Ask questions about him because that might reveal something that you both share. It’s better than pretending that you’re the top of your class or you hold a high-paying job when you really don’t.

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The next time you find yourself doubting your man’s loyalty or second guessing if your man is really interested, try to see if he does any of these four things. You may be surprised by how much he’s actually showing you without having to say outright those three little words.

He calls you at every possible time

Most guys can communicate without having to say a single word. For instance, guys can watch a game and still feel a brotherly bond with each other. Or they can talk about anything and everything about specific topic and not about themselves and feel like they know each other all their lives.

The bottom line is that a guy doesn’t usually make the effort of talking to someone unless he’s really interested in you. And this usually applies to women, especially those whom they feel they want to know more about.

If he makes the first move to get to know you, you can assume that there’s more to it than meets the eye. However, you should also approach with caution. While guys can make the first move, they can also become wary of pursuing you if you give him hints that you’re not into him.

He’s dating you exclusively

A common mistake that women make when they meet a guy is that when they go out, women assume that the man is only dating her. But in reality, what happens is that the guy doesn’t close off his options just yet.

Once he affirms that you are exclusively dating, it means that his devotion is completely yours. But that should also mean that you are not to see any other guy except him.

And in most times, men make sure that other guys, even his buddies, know that you’re off the market and you’re all his.

He doesn’t play mind games

Mind games in relationships exist because either one of you is trying to gauge just how much the other is invested in the relationship.

She may be saying yes, but she really means no, and is just testing how you will react. Or for guys, they may try to rile you up with inconsistent behavior, being sweet one moment and then shifting back to being detached and cold.

When he’s serious about you, he doesn’t want to risk you getting fed up with inconsistent behavior. After all, women do not always stick it out when they’re pushed into a roller coaster of hot and cold moments. And if the guy really likes you, he’d rather be straight up with his feelings than to dare be the guy who got dumped because he liked to play mind games.

He’s there for you

This may be the most clichéd approaches that any man can take, but that’s only if they don’t show it with actions. When he is there for you during the important times, you can assume that he wants to be there for the long haul.

If the guy you are currently dating is taking the pains to be with you during your times of trouble (like when you get sick) or if he’s ready to listen to you rant about a snooty office mate or a hard-driving boss, then you can see that the effort means that he likes you.

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It is through these gestures that you can respond to him. But this means that you have to know which signs to look out for to know if he likes you or not.

He notices the little things

Most guys remember things about you that are either really unforgettable, unusual or something that falls under their own interests.

But if a guy likes you, even the littlest detail seems to have logged itself in his memory. He may know when your birthday is, what you were drinking when you first met, or the story you told him about your dog.

If he happens to drop a detail about something that you said before, that’s a big hint—he remembers the things you tell him because his attention was only on you the whole time.

He’s the perfect gentleman

Cheesy chivalry may be dead—think Romeo and Juliet—but a guy who likes you will go to lengths just to show you that he’s the guy who is willing to protect and care for you as much as he can.

When you’re out in groups, he’ll try acting like the considerate boyfriend, pulling out a chair for you, opening the car door, or even buying you drinks. If he does all this only to you and not your other girlfriends, then you’re looking at a guy who’s trying to catch your eye—because you already have his.

He rarely says no

Say you want a cup of Coke while you’re watching the game with friends. Even if his favorite team is about to throw the winning shot, he’ll most likely stand up and run to the kitchen and back just to get you what you want.

Guys who are into you want to make a good impression. During the preliminary stage when he hasn’t made any move, he’s still trying to show you what he’s capable of giving you. It’s to make sure that you get what you want and to show you that he’s the provider of all those needs.

He tries to be near you

It’s the typical high school set-up. You’re in a cafeteria, a bar or a friend’s living room, and of all the places that he can sit, he always chooses to sit down next to you.

For shy guys, this is usually a signature move, because he’s trying to test the waters. It’s also the easiest way to get you to talk to him. He can either say something directly to you or he can answer to a question that you throw to the group.

He tries to get to know you

This is his way of trying to get a feel of what you like, so that the next time that you’re all together, he knows what you may need or want, and he can be there to provide for you.

Also, he’s trying to get a feel of what you do or your everyday routine, so he knows which days he can ask you out and when you’re available to hang out.

Watch out for conversations wherein he always steers it towards acquiring more personal information about you. Get a feel if his interest is genuine, because that is one surefire sign that he wants you.

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If you find yourself becoming attracted to someone who’s already got a ring on his finger or if you think that you’re being pursued by one, don’t throw caution to the wind by saying that it can work.

More often than not, dating someone who’s already married, regardless of gender, age, or background, will only end in disaster.

Cheating is a big no-no in relationships

The saying, “What goes around, comes around,” applies here, mainly because you’re allowing yourself to have a relationship with someone who may just as well cheat on you in the long run.

When you start a relationship where one of you is cheating, you know there’s a problem. If he’s really in love with you, he will deal with his current relationship before pursuing you.

And, in the first place, why would you want to start a relationship that’s based on deception (on his part) and is mainly affected by guilt (on your part)?

You’re short-changing yourself

There are many fish in the sea—so why bother pursuing one who’s already hooked? Even if you say you love each other, there are other men who can offer you the whole package instead of just being a temporary presence in your life.

Imagine the times when you would want to introduce him to your family or friends. He will most likely avoid contact with them because he either doesn’t want to get close to them when he would need to break off with you or doesn’t want things to get more complicated.

Furthermore, occasions, holidays, and generally the times that you can share with him will be cut short. You’re just his mistress. To keep up with appearances, he will be spending the important moments with his family, and you, as his mistress, will have to make do with keeping yourself happy.

It’s not about commitment

More often than not, a relationship with a married man is not about commitment. There’s a big chance that it’s about lust—he craves to be with someone other than his wife. It’s possible that it’s about love—those instances where he found the love of his life a tad too late—but if it really is about love, he would do the right thing and separate with his current wife to pursue you.

So it boils down to him just wanting to spend the night (or nights) with you. And most times, if trouble starts to brew, you’re the one who’ll be thrown out, not his wife.

Your reputation is at stake

Just think of how people will react if they learn that you’re dating a married man. Not only will people call you names behind your back, but guys may also judge you as someone who’s either too easy or too desperate.

The sad fact here is that women are judged more harshly than men, especially if you’re meddling with someone who’s already legally committed.

You’ll be a home wrecker

Kids are the ones who are most affected by separation, more so by a cheating parent. They may not know that an affair is happening, but they can sense that something is troubling the family.

Even if the man doesn’t have any kids yet, you’re ruining the chance of them having a family together. Plus, during their years of marriage, their families have connected and formed a bond—an extension of each other’s families, and one that you’re meddling into.

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However, if you’re looking to find a new way to turn your man on, check out these six surprising turn-ons that just seem to do it for the guys.

Speedy lady driver

 
There’s something about chicks behind the wheel that just turn a man on each time. Their need for speed, aggressive attitude, and no fear motto allows them to drive fast enough to compete with any guy driver in the streets while keeping in tune with road regulations.

Remember, there’s a difference between an aggressive chick who still gets to play by the rules and a DUI driver who always speeds because she happens to “miss the red light.”

Kudos to those who drive a stick shift—it makes the thrill more fun instead of driving around bumper car style.

White cotton undies

 
Victoria’s Secret models have shown just how sexy a woman can be with showy and lacy lingerie. But there’s also something to be said of simple white cotton panties that make men think of innocent first-timers.

Try to spice up your love life by wearing a variety of underwear and then sneaking in a white cotton undie when you’re about to get down to give him a happy surprise.

Just got out of bed look

 
Believe it or not, some guys love looking at your face sans makeup. It tells him that you can still look beautiful even if you have days when you’re just low maintenance. He will feel good

While you can surprise your man by being the sophisticated chick during some days, don’t be afraid to relax and unwind with him in just your shorts, sweater, or a big t-shirt. And during the morning after, you get bonus points if you’re wearing his shirt from the night before.
 

Show off your funny side

Humor can be a huge turn-on because it shows that you can feel comfortable just laughing around your man. Whether you’re the type of girl who has a quick wit and the need to banter humorously or the girl who has a secret collection of items like action figures, dolls, or all things childish, your man can appreciate your silly side.

Just have fun with your man and don’t be afraid to look silly in front of him.

You’re not afraid to admit liking sex

The hard reality is that sex for men is a need in their relationships. However, they would want to know that once in a while, they’re not the only ones who want you physically.

Letting them know that you want them is a huge turn-on, not only because your man knows that when he wants some action, you’d be there for him, but also because it makes him feel that you are still attracted to him.

Cracking green jokes

Usually, he does this with his other guy friends because let’s admit it, most dirty jokes by guys are really dirty and crass, and not a lot of women can appreciate them.

But if you happen to be open to making your own dirty joke in front of him, don’t be afraid to go for it. Guys really love humor, and they love it more if you know how to be on their level when it comes to guy humor.

He certainly won’t treat you like one of his guy friends for your dirty joke, but you can be sure that he’ll be looking at you in a different light.

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Make yourself stand out from the others by dressing yourself and behaving in a way that would make you appeal more to the opposite sex.

Wear the right dress for the right occasion

Even if guys are not the best when it comes to fashion sense, what you wear does matter, especially when there is an occasion or special situation. When you’re out on a date, it doesn’t hurt to dress your best.

It’s not just about you looking and feeling good. It’s also about him knowing that you want to look good for him.

When dressing up, the key is showing some skin, but hiding the more tantalizing spots. Pair a lacy tip that has buttons running from your neck to your waist with a short skirt for a naughty teacher look. Or you can wear a sundress that displays your arms and legs but hides everything else in the middle.

Fix your hair

Choosing between an up ‘do and a natural cascade of hair can be tricky. It can depend on your man’s taste or it can also depend on your outfit.

Put some effort into styling your hair. Contrary to most women’s assumptions, guys do notice how you look. In fact, they see it as a major factor for liking you. While they may not notice the little details—if you’ve trimmed your hair or if your dress is newly bought—they take in the big picture and judge if they like what they see.

Your hair is your crowning glory, so it has to make you feel beautiful. It doesn’t matter if it’s a short crop or a wave of curls—you need to own it and be accentuated by it.

Show off your cute or sexy habits

Each person has a particular habit. It can be nail biting, lip biting, hand wringing, or the like. Some guys find girls who have particular habits, such as twirling a lock of hair around their index finger or crinkle their noses when they laugh.

At the same time, there are also particular sexy cues that some women unconsciously do, such as biting or licking their lips when talking.

Before trying to find your own quirk and executing it in front of your man, be mindful that these habits are endearing because they are not consciously done. When they are done to be cute, that’s when men can spot if you are just trying to look coy or if you’re naturally cute.

Smile

A genuine smile can do wonders, whether you’re walking down the street or dining out with your man for a dinner date. This is because guys tend to gravitate towards women who smile more, as it gives out an inviting, approachable, and open atmosphere.

It also makes them feel that there are smaller chances of being outright rejected, as a smiling woman may be more accommodating or willing to talk to him.

Exude confidence

Top everything off with a confident aura and you’re set to go. No matter how great you look, you will never be as half attractive if you lack the confidence to just be yourself and do what you want to do.

If you’re confident about yourself inside out, then your vibe alone can channel a certain appeal that your man will take notice of.

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Before you hit the beach running, here are some tips and tricks to help you meet new guys while on vacation and make this summer one to remember.

Wear the classic lady weapon: the bikini

Summer is the time for bikinis to make an appearance. This is why you should hit the stores and get a pair of bikinis that would show off your body in the best way possible. There are several kinds to choose from including string bikinis, tankinis, asymmetrical swimsuits, one piece swimsuits, and more.

But you have to remember that bikinis are the equivalent of your regular clothing during off-seasons, which means that your bikini is reflective of your style. So you have to choose wisely.

Solid, toned-down colors express simplicity and elegance. Playful designs and colors scream fun and excitement. Asymmetrical designs show experimentation. Neon colors can be tricky—they can either say “Notice me!” or they can make guys feel blinded after looking at you for a few seconds.

Go for the natural sun-kissed look

People get sweaty from the sun and swim at the beach, so it may not be the best place to pack on a whole lot of makeup. Let’s face it, when the sweltering heat gets the best of you, you’d feel icky rather than hot with cracked foundation or smudged eyeliner.

If you really need to put on makeup, go for waterproof cosmetics. Put on waterproof mascara for your eyes and a dash of lipgloss for color. With the right amount of sunlight, you’ll get yourself a sun-kissed, barely-there look before the night is over—and hopefully, just before a date with a newly-met guy.

Avoid tuning out devices

Hanging out at the beach means two different things to guys and girls. Women usually prefer to hangout and lounge under the sun to get the perfect tan, while the men opt to play beach games, swim around, and explore the place.

One thing that you should avoid at the beach is electronic devices. Whether it’s an mp3 player, an iPod, a laptop, or a tablet, leave it at home or at least in your cottage. Nothing says back off more than clacking keyboards or headphones plugged to your ears.

If you want to meet men during your stay at the beach, try to be more explorative when it comes to your beach activities. You can still get your tan even while taking a dip in the water or playing volleyball with friends.

Be in small groups

If you plan on going to the beach, try to do so in a small number or around three to four people. Guys usually go to the beach in groups, so if you’re flying solo, he may feel that you don’t want any company. A flock of girls, on the other hand, can be intimidating for the guy, especially if his group is a lot smaller than your crowd.

Smaller groups also allow for better mingling, because you can either partner off with the boys (if the groups are equal in number) or you can combine the group for a merrier time at the beach.

The classic rules of mingling are similar at the beach as it is in other locations, so it’s best to stick with what you know.

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Here are six of the latest women’s fashion trends, styles, and habits that men would prefer their ladies to just forget about and consider as “so last season.”

Jeggings

Jeans or leggings? Most men would rather have their ladies pick one or the other—not combine them in one hideous clothing article.

Though jeggings may bring the comfort of wearing unconstructed leggings and give the illusion that you are wearing jeans, it screams, “Which is which?”

If you’re going to wear leggings, choose a plain color, preferably a darker, solid one to avoid any underwear mishaps. With jeans, go with the style that complements your body.

Prints—on the behind

You’ve seen those in sweatpants, short shorts, and sometimes the occasional jeans. “Sexy lady,” “Foxy Roxy,” or sometimes an entire feel good motto like “I’m beautiful” are now splashed across women’s behinds as they strut their thing in malls, parks or on the street.

While there’s nothing wrong with messages on clothing, you have to be conscious of where you are putting those prints. Prints on shirts and bags are okay—but if you’re treading on lower area territory, you know you’ve gone too far.

And a word of caution: having words printed on your behind is giving every man the excuse to look at your tush.

Too much foundation

If you’re working in show business where a camera is trained on your face 24/7 or if you’re performing anywhere onstage, then a layer of foundation—and an even heavier layer of makeup—is still acceptable. After all, not doing so would make you look like a ghost.

But if you’re just one of the average citizens, too much foundation can make you look like you have an extra layer of skin—even worse, if it’s starting to crack.

Men love it when they can cuddle with their women and not have their cheek covered in a layer of foundation after they part. There’s a difference between covering up a problematic area and trying to go an entire skin tone shade lighter. If you need to cover a few blemishes, opt for a simple concealer and you’re good to go.

Faux fur

Some guys do love animals, and the fact that you’re wearing one (even if it’s faux fur) makes them feel that they are with an animal killer.

If you’re feeling cold, opt for a jacket or a trench coat, which still exudes elegance without gobbling up your figure.

Mixing prints

Floral sundresses look good. A funky print on a blouse also looks great. The occasional animal print can look good with the right accessories. But put them all in one outfit? Bad idea.

For guys, your clothes are just accessories because you’re supposed to be the main attraction. For that much design and pattern to be all over you in one go can distract your man from just seeing you in all your glory.

Oversized sunglasses

Yes, they can be hip. Yes, they may protect your eyes from the glaring sun. But do your sunglasses have to cover half of your face and give you a bug-looking appearance?

Find a pair of sunglasses that fits the frame of your face without covering half of it. Men want to see you when they look at you, not a pair of black lenses staring back at them.

However, this doesn’t mean that it’s every girl’s wish to be with a bad boy. Call it the thrill of the new, the call of the danger, or the allure of the dark side. Whatever it is, bad boys seem to be a phase in every girl’s dream, literal or real life.

Know the reasons for why most women, probably like yourself, often find the need to be with a bad boy at least once in your life.

Bad boys are usually different

The meaning of bad is varies depending on one’s definition of bad is. Obviously, bad boys don’t mean guys who steal, pillage, and do criminal acts—though some high school students may beg to differ on this one. Bad boys are usually those that seem and act tough and manly with women.

Instead of trying to impress women, it seems that they just do things naturally and still be attractive. Instead of trying to appear cool according to the norm that society dictates, bad boys tend to deviate from everything ordinary.

Women just feel a different aura when it comes to bad boys, and the thrill of the danger makes them want them bad.

Bad boys exude adventure

Every relationship has a honeymoon stage, where you and your man just can’t seem to get your hands off each other. With bad boys, this phase seems to stretch on, especially during courtship. Bad boys usually don’t conform to how relationships go (unless he becomes a changed man when you say “Yes”) so the adventure, thrill, and excite continues.

For the “good girls,” this is an interesting change of pace, especially if they have been conforming to all the rules and regulations of society. Being with a bad boy is liberating, and it allows them to feel free.

The downside here is that stability becomes the least of his concerns. When you’re always living on the edge or treating everything as if every day is an adventure, then you’re bound to throw caution and responsibility to the wind each time.

Bad boys drip with sex appeal

Usually, the bad boys are brooding, mysterious, and riveting. This means that you’re unlikely to find a geeky awkwardness, preppy uptightness, or a sporty jock attitude.

If you have to categorize them under a stereotype, they’d be those boys in high school wearing leather jackets, hanging out with a different girl every week, and being labeled as the rebel by all the professors.

And you’d have to admit, even the geekiest girl or the cheeriest cheerleader had wanted to get together with the rebel.

Bad boys make women want to rescue them

Women are natural caregivers. They want to care for their partners and eventually their kids. This is why you often encounter cases of women believing that they can change their boyfriends.

It doesn’t matter if they are playboys, have the habit of cheating, have a vice, or just have the tendency to be wayward in his ways. Women believe they have the power to change the guy for the better.

Plus, women love a challenge. And what bigger challenge is there than to have a bad boy in front of them, just waiting to be molded into the ideal, exciting man of their dreams. For women, having done something as big as changing their man for the better is one of the biggest accomplishments and boost to their ego.

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Whatever the case may be, know how to handle situations like this with grace with these four crucial tips.

Go out with groups of friends

Hanging out with your best guy bud is natural. But when this happens frequently and you’re vehement about the fact that he’s just a friend then you might have to start thinking about the time you spend alone with him.

One big downside to this is that not only will you start hearing rumors and catcalls every time you’re together, you may also be repelling other guys from getting to know you—and girls getting to know him,

The next time you want to hang out, call your other friends so you can all meet together. This will stop any whispers of you and your best bud as being more than just friends.

Don’t get into sexually-charged situations

Girls feel comfortable when they kiss their girl friends on the cheek or when they give a hello hugs. But with guy friends, it’s normal to feel a little guarded when it comes to these things. It’s because there has to be a boundary when you show affection to your guy friends.

A simple hug or kiss on the cheek can literally mean hello or goodbye, but you can never tell if your guy friend—especially if you’re not yet that close yet—may interpret it in some other way.

Plus, you can’t discount the possibility of hormones suddenly going haywire. Even if the last thing you want to do is be sexy around him or him being gentlemanly to you, hormones can put you in a very awkward spot.

Only do things that friends do

Movies with your other friends? Check. Movies alone, just the two of you, then grab dinner together? Treading on dangerous waters there.

It’s hard to say that nothing will come out of your friendship if nothing has ever happened yet. As clichéd as it may sound, some friendships can go into the couple territory if you’re not careful. It doesn’t matter if you already know each other or if you’ve just become best buds.

Steer clear of romantic stuff and try not to be the love guru instead of the shoulder to cry on. Even then, being the go-to person after a fight with his significant other may not bode well. Guys can be vulnerable too, and when they are, they may not always be in control of what they feel. Prevent yourself or your guy friend from getting hurt by sticking to what platonic friends usually enjoy.

Stick with your decision

If you’ve already decided to put him in the friend zone, don’t take it back. Just as you wouldn’t want a guy to send you mixed signals, guys also don’t like it when a girl plays friend or tease—regardless if it’s intentional or not.

Think about what you really want and weigh the pros and cons. If you’re not willing to sacrifice the friendship to experiment on something new, then don’t. If you feel like you can take it to the next level without harming your friendship, then do so. But you should be ready for any and every complication that may come your way.

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Don’t be one of those girls who are constantly second guessing if they will still get a second or even a third date. Here are a few tips to ensure that you avoid the first-date-is-the-last plague.

Play the coy card

While you’re on the date, it’s good to have a little initiative and show him that you want him, granted that you really do. What you shouldn’t do, however, is make the first move that would propel the first date stage to the next one before the night is over.

In most cases, the man is the one who tries to get a second date. This isn’t about the gender thing—it’s an emotional thing. Women are usually the ones who become more attached with the person they date, and it’s better to have an easy out in the event that a guy isn’t interested to pursue it further.

You can play it cool the entire date, but be mindful of what he feels for you. This way, you wouldn’t have to lift a finger to get the next date as long as you both feel the same way.

Keep them interested

If you like your date, but feel that he isn’t reciprocating the feeling, one good way to give it a go would be to keep them interested. Change your tactic. If you feel like you have been too much of a good girl the entire date, try to spice it up a little. Change the topic of conversation or aim for the mysterious and sexy appeal.

Guys will be intrigued and may start to wonder if they have been looking at you in the wrong way. If he’s interested, chances are he will try to score another date just to get to know you better. And if that happens, you can use that other chance to use your charms.

Don’t give it all on the first date

Say that you both agree on seeing each other again. Don’t assume that this is the green light for you hooking up at the end of the date. This means that you shouldn’t allow him to go all the way with you. If you want to show him that you really want something more than just an initial date, you can go so far as giving him a lingering kiss to make him want more of you.

If he really wants something serious with you, he will respect your wants and wait until you’re ready.

Don’t be the clingy type

Towards the end of your date, you’d probably be feeling torn between trying to enjoy the rest of the evening and pondering on whether or not he’s going to say that he’ll call you later.

When he has already told you that he’ll call later, resist the urge to dial his number if the call doesn’t come an hour after you’ve gotten home. Chances are he’s still on the way or he’s still doing something important.

If you really like this guy, you can call, but only if a few days have passed. And the call should not be about you asking him why he hasn’t called but to ask about him. Get a feel of how he feels about you. If he responds positively and asks you out again, then it’s worth the effort. If not, learn to move on.

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If you’re in the stage where the passion seems to be growing colder by the day, check out some of these viable reason as to why the passion and the love fades.

It was lust, not love

With modern society now becoming more accepting of different ways by which one can find and start a relationship. If before, men toiled on love letters and courtship, relationships can start and stop anytime between forever and tomorrow.

The main factor for this is that people can confuse lust with love. Whether you met at a party amid a haze of alcohol and partying, or whether he saw his dream girl in slow-motion just like the movies, the initial reaction is most probably lust.

Granted, this is usually what happens at the beginning of most relationships. Love settles in afterwards, when the honeymoon phase is over and you have become comfortable with each other. But if he isn’t able to get past that stage, then the relationship may not last as long as you want it to.

Everything’s a business

Relationships should be an equal share of responsibility between two people, but there’s a point where you should draw the line between business and pleasure.

If your days are filled with nothing but money talk, schedules and rules, you might be reducing the relationship to a business.

Men like spontaneity and hate the small details. Surprise him with a spontaneous trip or a new hobby to spice up your love life.

You’re more of a mom, not a lover

There are men who fall in love with a woman who reminds them of their mother. In most cases, this may not be a bad thing. Some men want to find women who remind them of their mothers because they would want their kids to be reared by someone who raised them.

However, there are also cases wherein they see you someone who is supposed to take on a mother’s role in their lives. Sadly, this isn’t as easily resolved as a change of heart. There are some guys who have been raised to be dependent on their mothers, which can pose as a problem for when they get their own partners in the future.

If this is the case with your man, it’s not your fault. If he is able to accept the fact that your role should be an equal partner in the relationship instead of one that he depends on the way a child does to a mother, then it is better to end the relationship.

Compatibility does matter

How many times have you heard the phrase, “Opposites attract?” In movies and novels, this kind of romantic pairing seems to work. Rebel skateboarder meets the perky cheerleader, the brainy scientist falls in love with a rugged and violent military man, the brooding geek gets the socialite girl next door—and somehow, the relationship seems oh, so sweet.

But reality is more hard-hitting and, well, real than any silver screen romance. This is the reason why, over time, you will realize that compatibility is necessary to make a relationship work. The little but significant things will start to matter.

You love to go shopping but he may be a Scrooge-in-the-making. You love going out with friends, he just wants to stay home. In time, he’d be so strained, agitated, and emotionally drained with the relationship that it’s easier to just give up.

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But it doesn’t have to be like that. One good way to test the waters is through flirting—guys tend to respond to subtle advances if they also like the girl they see. Try to channel your inner confident girl and flirt the right way with these tips.

Play the role you like

Just because you are shy around people doesn’t mean you have to play this role each time you are out. The good thing about trying to meet a guy and flirting with him is that he doesn’t know you yet. He doesn’t know that you may have a track record of being the shy girl all the time.

In fact, this can serve as your clean slate. If you’ve always wanted to be a more outgoing girl, play that role. If you want to be the mysterious lady who’s reserved and elegant, be that person. But don’t forget—you shouldn’t ignore or completely neglect who you really are.

Relax

Most first dates or even flirting trials blow because of one thing: nerves. Just like guys, girls can get the jitters at the thought of coming up to the guy that they like.

Before you leave the house, psyche yourself up with the thought of going out and meeting guys. Think positive thoughts, leave your doubts and hesitations at home, and bring your cheerful self so you can both feel and exude the charming feeling.

Use a funny line

Funny can work on guys—doesn’t matter if it’s a funny line, a funny anecdote or a funny talent. Guys like a girl who can laugh at themselves and make them laugh.

If you find a guy whom you really want to impress and charm, let your guard down a bit and let loose. Channel your inner funny girl and try your hand at a joke or two. Chances are he will respond in a positive way, and at worst, he’ll politely engage in conversation without pushing it further. Either way, you have nothing to lose!

Use your assets

Do you have great hair that you can flip like those models in shampoo commercials? Are your eyes naturally big and beautiful? Does your smile launch the proverbial thousand ships? Do you have the body that can make heads turn? Whatever your asset may be, learn to play it up when you’re trying to flirt with a guy. They

Try to catch his attention by flipping your hair or making eye contact. If you’re already talking at the bar or at a table, make sure to engage him in conversation and appear interested—but not too interested—and see where the night will take you.

Go for confident

More than having tricks up your sleeve, one surefire way to get his attention is to exude the right amount of confidence—not too much or you’ll appear intimidating and not too meek or you’ll seem strict and prudish.

Before you whine and wonder how you, a shy girl, will be able to pull off confidence, rest assured that everyone has a confidence level, no matter how introverted or extroverted you are.

The key is tapping into your inner confident girl and showing more than what you are probably used to. If things go well, then you might just be looking at the start of something good.

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For women, this is said to be the opposite. But in reality, there are more women who want to experience something light and casual with someone without having to deal with the burden of a partner. Here are a few tips on how you can keep flings easy and fun to avoid the hassles of drama and pre-relationship questions.

Set an expiration date

There’s a reason why it’s called “summer fling”—it should end the moment you reach the last day of the season. While you don’t have to time a fling with the sun and sand, you should set a date when you should start and end your fling.

Keeping the expiration date open to when one of you gets tired of the fling can cause pain and hurt for one of you. And if you prolong it past a viable date, you’ll be sucked into the complicated issue of whether you’re now in a relationship or not. It’s better to end things while you still yearn for each other because it will leave a more palatable feeling that the fairytale flings hasn’t rally ended yet.

Go for someone who’s not your ideal guy

When you’re looking for summer flings, it’s not the time to try finding the man of your dreams. So if your peg for the perfect guy is a businessman who has fair skin and lanky build, try to look for a fling who’s the total opposite—an artist who has been out in the sun far too often and has the beach body to attest to it.

This way, you wouldn’t be so attached or preoccupied with thinking that maybe it can be more than a fling, and you can just have fun with him.

Pick someone who’s always available

Who wants a fling who can’t even commit to meeting up when you want to see him? Summer flings work best when you’re both free to meet up when one of you feels like hooking up, whether it’s early morning for a random trip, lunch in the afternoon, or an evening stroll at the beach.

But you should also make sure that you’re not booked to your neck with commitments and priorities, or he’ll grow tired of having to deal with your schedule organizer.

Don’t limit yourself

Setting parameters for your fling—he should be tall, he should be rich, he should be older—can make it difficult to find a casual partner. For the most part, the only restriction that most women would have on flings is that they be good in bed. Otherwise, let your imagination and your options soar.

Try out a foreign fling

While you’re considering a summer love affair, why not go a notch higher with foreign guys? This is especially exciting if you’re in an exotic getaway like Brazil or an Asian tropic paradise.

Having a foreign fling doesn’t just have romantic advantages—it can also make you feel a bigger kind of adventure. You can experience traditions from different cultures, break down or confirm stereotypes of other nationalities, or get a crash course of another language.

There’s also an obvious advantage with a foreign fling. Not only will you be forced to end the fling once you board the airplane, but it’ll be a boost of self-confidence when you tell you girlfriends that you snagged a hot foreign stranger for two weeks.

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This is because dating is an experience that can be learned as a skill. In fact, the more people you get to date, the more you improve on certain skills, such as people skills and conversation skills.

If you’re looking into the idea of dating more than one guy, consider these five tips for smoother dates.

Be open but discreet with the guys you’re going out with

Honesty goes a long way, but don’t push it. Discreetness is your best friend when you’re trying to play the field the right way.

It’s never a good idea to keep something as big as the fact that you’re dating another guy or other guys. Some guys are familiar with the concept of dating other women, and if they’re open and up to it, then you don’t have any problems.

Another reason why you should tell your date up front that he’s not the only guy you’re dating is that some guys may not agree to that kind of arrangement. Contrary to popular notion, some guys are committed to the girls they go out with, and they appreciate that you do the same.

Avoid guys who run in the same circles

Just imagine what happened to The Beatles when Yoko came into the picture. Just like girls, guys talk about the girls they date, especially when they are smitten by them. You wouldn’t want to find out one day that two of the guys you currently dating talked about you during boys’ night out. It’s not only awkward, but also a big inconvenience to all those involved.

No sex please

Dating around is generally acceptable, but sleeping around is where you should draw the line. That is the difference between playing the field to find the right guy and playing the field irresponsibly. The moment that you dates find out that you’ve been sleeping around with most or even all of them, there’s a big chance that they would not want to pursue the relationship further.

Consider your abstinence as your way of saving yourself until you find the guy that you feel is the right one.

Give him your attention when it’s his turn

Say you’re out on a date with Guy #1. You’re enjoying your meal and you’re halfway through dessert when you receive a message from Guy #2, and he’s asking if you’re free next weekend for coffee.

The general rule is to tell Guy #2 that you cannot attend to him at the moment. Tell him that you will reply as soon as possible. Since you’re already open with the relationship, he’ll understand. Remember, Guy #1 is as important as Guy #2—if you’re out with one, be with him, physically, emotionally, mentally, and everything else.

Have fun with the experience

Dating around is not supposed to be stressful. If it’s your thing, don’t be afraid to do it. Just make sure that you know where to draw the line and always be aware of the risks involved.

Bottom line is that you should have fun with it. You are a smart and confident woman, and if you feel that you need to date a few men to know which one you should stick around for, then go with your instincts. You shouldn’t settle for anything else just because a few traditionalists do not agree with what you want.

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Chances are, the second option seems the more palatable for those who are looking into a smooth and hassle-free dating experience. But what most people forget with dating is that not every experience is the same, and the way that you can find dates—whether through cyberspace or bar-hopping—will not always render the same results.

For those who want to dip a foot into online dating, here are a few pros and cons that you should consider before diving in.

The good: Convenience

That one word alone can trigger sighs of relief from many women who have gone through various fruitless bar episodes where they had to deal with sleazy men trying to buy them drinks all night long.

With only a laptop, Internet connection, and a bevy of online sites to choose from, you will be on your way to finding the guy of your cyber-dreams at the touch of a button.

The bad: Scams, scams, and more scams

If there’s one thing that the Internet is known for, it must be the scams. Internet scams range from wasting people’s time with quick cash scams that end up using their energy and resources or outright ripping people off their hard-earned money.

Sadly, love doesn’t conquer all, and even dating sites can be populated by scammers preying on those who take online dating seriously. Though you can never really be totally safe from scams, it pays to be a little discerning when checking out potential partners.

The good: You get a lot of choices

When you’re stuck scouting bars full of guys who aren’t your type or managing through an awkward blind date, you may catch yourself wondering if there are other guys there whom you could have been meeting that very moment.

Meeting people personally can be very taxing especially if you are not meeting the kind of guys that you are looking for. However, with online dating sites, it’s like you have a lineup of boys just waiting to be contacted and introduced to through chat or instant messaging. An added bonus is that you get all that without leaving the comforts of your own home.

The bad: You can’t always trust the profiles

With online dating sites, you will be required to create a profile that will list down your interests, hobbies, and basically, the tidbits that interested people would want to know prior to your actual meeting.

A word of caution when looking for your potential man, take online profiles with a grain of salt. Even though you seem to have found the man of your dreams, you have to consider the fact that all the information written in his profile may not be entirely true. Embellishing your profile to make it more appealing has been a practice that most people can’t really get rid of.

The good: Zoom in on guys with the same interests

At the touch of a button, you can filter information, interests, and hobbies of a person in online dating sites. If you want someone who’s sporty, a science nerd, or a successful businessman in his field, there are ways by which one can access these information and use advanced searched methods so that those who are still looking for potentials can focus on the traits and interests that we share together.

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If you’re tired of second guessing, check out these four hints which can help you determine if the guy you like also has similar feelings for you.

He calls you with a pet name

Pet names or cutesy terms of endearment are not only shared by couples—sometimes a guy can slip and call you something endearing, something that he only uses on you. This isn’t limited to terms like “darling” or “sweetie pie” because you aren’t in that relationship just yet.

Watch out for nicknames that play on your name or maybe one that describes you or an activity that you both share or enjoy together. Guys are not normally romantic by nature, unless they are faced with the girl they like. So if they start calling you by a nickname while treating every other girl normally, then it’s a sign worth contemplating about.

He pays more attention to you

Ever been out on a group date or dinner with the man that you’ve had your eyes on? Observe how he treats you compared to the way he treats the other women in the group.

He may be a little more helpful (asks if you need help with anything), more of a gentleman (makes sure that he help you carry things or even pulls out a chair for you), more caring (asks if you are having a grand time with the group) or basically more observant when it comes to you (he notices the smallest things that you do, whether you look like you are feeling a little sick or you look a little problematic).

If you’re the only one who’s getting better or more special treatment than any of your girlfriends, then it might mean that you have piqued his interest.

He seems interested in everything about you

It’s happened once or twice when, while you’re talking to someone, it’s as if he is a million miles away. You’ve probably found yourself in the same situation, where your companion is just droning on about something that you can help but daydream.

The next time that you’re talking to a guy, see if he’s really listening. If you find him hanging on to every word, or if takes an active role in the conversation, there’s a big chance that he likes you. It means that he is interested in every little detail about you.

He has told his friends about you

Has there been a time when he has introduced you to his closest friends and it seems as if they know a lot about you? Or perhaps a common mutual friend has mentioned a thing or two about him even when you haven’t even told that friend about your conversations with the guy?

Chances are, he has been telling his friends about you. Some guys do this to check if you’re seeing someone or if he has a chance with you. Others may tell someone about you because he finds you attractive and would like other people to know about it. Just keep this in mind: if he took the time to tell his friends certain things about you, then that extra effort may mean the difference between being nice and liking you.

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Say you see a stranger who captures your interest. This doesn’t even have to be a romantic angle—there have probably been times when you wanted to get to know the lone person sitting at the bar or at a friend’s party. Whatever the reason is, you don’t have to feel awkward if you’re introducing yourself to a guy first.

Here are different ways where women can introduce themselves to guys who catch their eye or to anyone who they want to have a fun conversation with.

Knowledge is power

There’s a reason why geeks are starting to dominate almost every aspect of media and television—there’s just something about smart people that make them seem oh so sexy.

If you know a bunch of cool trivia or facts, don’t be afraid to use them. Just make sure you do it in context—if you’re in a bar, drop a fact about beers or parties. If you’re waiting for the start of a game, mention a fact about baseball or basketball.

Find a common interest

Now this can be a little complicated because you have to know that you actually share something in common before you can use any trick in the book. For instance, if you’re a sporty gal hanging out in a sports bar, you can be sure that you know. Or if you’re at a friend’s party, you can drop a name of the host and ask how he knows your friend.

Drop lines like: You should’ve seen the game last night. Man, the Lakers were awesome. Are you also a fan?

Be funny

Guys just love girls who can laugh at themselves. It means that they can relate to these women without having to watch their humor or their banter all the time.

If you can find a way to inject your own brand of humor—faking it can backfire, if you’re not really the humorous type—don’t be afraid to do so. It would be a pleasant surprise especially if he is also one who loves comedic conversations.

One good tip: Drop a funny joke or two. Do a simple magic trick. It’s the 21st century and whatever funny tricks that guys used to do to pick up women can easily be done by the opposite sex—and sometimes, it’s a lot more effective.

Use a pickup line—it works!

This must be the oldest rule in the book, but somehow, for guys, it has started to lose its luster. But girls who are able to use a pickup line and pull it off are a gem in the rough.

If he calls your bluff and asks if it was a line, just laugh it off and tell him that it was worth trying out. Then introduce yourself. The best pickup lines that girls can use would be funny ones or cheesy ones because you can laugh it off as a joke before introducing yourself properly.

Ease your way into it

The common misconception when meeting someone is that you have to play yourself up so you can be noticed. Some people tend to use clever references to sound smart or knowledgeable. Others try to know the person’s interest just so they can say, “Yeah, me too!”

The simplest advice here is to be yourself. Don’t be clever or witty or naughty if it’s not your style. Let your personality shine even with just a simple introduction, and it can take you to places.

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However, unlike those with past boyfriends or girlfriends, approaching people who have been previously married is a whole different thing. Before jumping the dating wagon, make sure that you know where you and your divorced man stand in a new relationship.

A man with a past: Approach with care

His past will always be. When you’re dating a divorced man, be on the lookout for those who are still showing signs of not having completely moved on from their marriage. Talking about his ex-wife, indulging in divorce talk, praising or bashing the ex-wife behind her back, or spending a great deal of time with the ex-wife—any of these that are done too frequently should get you thinking before going further into a serious relationship with him.

Know his short-term goals

The downside here is that, with most divorced men, they may be more interested in keeping things casual and enjoying the new life of being a single man again. They have been in a serious commitment for a good deal of time, so they may want to take things slow.

However, not all divorced men may know what they want. The best thing to do would be to get a feel of what they may want. Remember, you wouldn’t want to be his rebound relationship, but at the same time, you wouldn’t want to let the chance of getting a good man pass up.

Be considerate of the kids

This may not apply to all, but to those who have kids, it could be a serious matter. Don’t isolate your boyfriend from his kids, or they will surely hate you for it. They may not even consider the idea of you becoming a step mom in the future if they feel that you will take their father away from them.

Let them come to you at their own pace, but make sure that you don’t shut them off by being aloof and uncaring. All of you are adjusting to this new lifestyle and to the new people around—it will take time. Be patient.

Do not disregard the ex-wife

You may be lucky if you find a divorced man who has been able to completely sever all connections with his ex-wife. But more often than not, ex-wives will have a presence in your boyfriend’s life, whether she may be visiting the kids or being a topic of a conversation.

The best thing to do with this situation would be to accept it as it is. As long as you have ensured that your man has already moved on, letting him talk about his past will not be a hindrance to the progress of your relationship.

Always be open

Just like in ordinary relationship, the best foundation when starting a relationship with a divorced man is to make be open about everything. Don’t be afraid to ask him questions. You have the right to know what you are getting into, and if he loves you, he will not try to hide anything from you.

But at the same time, try to be sensitive to his needs, especially if his divorce is a recent one. If he is not yet ready to talk about how his life was when he was with his ex-wife, or if he is not yet ready to introduce you to the kids, give him time.

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