Follow these six specific, simple and safe techniques on how to find a guy.
1. What are you looking for in a guy? This question seems simple enough to answer, but let me remind you that it’s best to be as specific as possible with respect to the qualities you look for in a guy.
Don’t get me wrong, you’re not objectifying men, you just want to be clear about the qualities you appreciate and want to see in a guy. List them down.
2. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Your usual approach to meeting men doesn’t work so don’t be afraid to try something new. Go to places where you can meet decent guys like a well respected bar with dress codes instead of your usual hangout.
3. Expose yourself. No, this doesn’t mean dress less or go nude. This simply means to project an atmosphere of availability like going out in smaller groups. Bring along a lady friend if you have problems being alone. In addition, flaunting your talents is another way of being approachable.
4. Smile and make eye contact with people. This removes the invincible wall separating you from the guys and showing them that you’re friendly and easy to approach.
5. Look your best. Let’s face it, with today’s available technology and fitness regimens, getting fit and fabulous is easy. You don’t have to be model thin, just the continuous effort to strive to be fit is good enough for starters. A decent guy will appreciate you making that effort to be fit.
6. Have a positive outlook. Nobody likes to meet a negative person. Don’t worry too much and enjoy all the eligible men you meet along the way of your search of the perfect guy.
