The goal of dating is usually
Photo by Your Secret AdmiralSoon your date calendar will be full… to find a committed relationship with someone who you are compatible with. But sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs or catch a lot of fish before finding the right one. So it makes sense to see more than one man at a time to help you narrow down your search. Whether you’re searching for a committed relationship, or just looking to spend some time having fun, here are some tips to help you to juggle your relationships successfully.
Save Yourself the Hassle
No one really loves drama, so be upfront with your dates. It’s not necessary to start the first date with the “I’m seeing other men” speech, but don’t let it go too long. If someone you are dating asks, it’s only fair to admit that you are seeing other men. Be careful not to lead someone on. If you are ready to part ways, make a clean break of it.
Being honest means that there is no need to get stressed out about your dates finding out about each other. You don’t need to keep secrets or worry about saying the wrong thing to the wrong person. Just remember that it goes both ways; if you are not exclusive, don’t expect exclusivity from the men you are dating. When things start to get serious with one man and you can really see a future with him, it’s time to consider that you should stop dating anyone else.
Don’t Over Schedule Yourself
Get to know your appointment book or calendar very well. Don’t double book yourself and don’t make commitments you can’t keep. If you have a smartphone, keep track of your dates by setting appointments in your calendar. Make sure to leave enough time between activities and don’t forget to leave in some wiggle room for unexpected delays.
When you tell someone that you’re going to call them, mark it down and include his name so you don’t forget who to call and when. Make sure that your dates don’t overlap with the telephone calls you are scheduling. And whatever you do, don’t answer a phone call or a text while you are on a date unless you are looking for a sure fire way to end the evening early. Turn your phone off or better yet, leave it in the car. You will have time enough to return calls after your date is finished.
Remember Names
Few things can throw cold water on a fire as quickly as calling your date by the wrong name. Let’s face it, if you are meeting lots of new men, and planning dates, it’s an easy enough mistake to make. One trick to remember someone’s name is to say it back to them as soon as you are introduced. It also helps to write it down. Take a look at business networking books for help with names if you need it.
Polyamory?
Some people choose to be polyamory. This means that they want the lifestyle of dating multiple people. Dating multiple men is a fun and sometimes necessary road to finding someone serious. It gives you the chance to get to know them and see if they might be a good fit without tying up too much of your time if they are not. Do you have tips to share for juggling several relationship? Please share in the comments!
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