Photo by Maximo LopezWhy doesn’t he want to meet you?You see a perfectly wonderful man across the room, or sitting on the next park bench and you give him your best smile and eye contact, but nothing. Zip. Nada. You’ve bombed out again.
What’s the problem, are you having trouble meeting men? You are an attractive, successful, sensitive, loving woman who’s wild in bed. You have everything to offer a man. So you find yourself asking “What’s wrong with me? What am I doing wrong?” The answer in many cases is that you’re not doing anything wrong.
If a particular man doesn’t approach you, you will probably never know why. But don’t beat yourself over the head because the reason may ultimately be beyond your control. Your goal is to influence a mans decision to approach you when you can, and forget about the times when you can’t. So let’s examine some of the reasons beyond your control why a man might not want to meet you.
You’re not his type
Each of us, male or female, young or old, has an idea of what we want and don’t want in a mate. If you don’t fit into a man’s category, based on the information available to him visually, he won’t be interested in you. In dating, personal prejudices and values judgments are the rule. It’s not your fault if you don’t meet his particular requirements.
Were talking about a first impression though. Your valuable and attractive qualities might not be available through a quick first impression if that’s the only opportunity you have to meet him. But if you get a chance to make a second or third impression on him, it may be more favorable. I can think of many times when a woman I hardly noticed at first became much more interesting to me when I got to know more about her. With time, he might acquire the additional information that could tip the scales in favor of meeting you.
Married
There’s nothing you can do, or should want to do if a man is off the market. If a man is happily married or otherwise involved, he won’t be interested in you. He may find you fascinating and attractive and carry on a lively conversation with you. He might even flirt with you a little, but he won’t ask you out. He has someone he likes at home. This is the kind of loyalty you should be expecting from your man.
Gay
He might be gay. If he’s not interested in women, you aren’t going to change his mind. He might be friendly to you and even flirt with you. You might even become best friends, but he doesn’t want a romantic relationship you: you’re the wrong gender. Bisexual men don’t fall in this category.
Emotionally Unavailable
He might be recovering from the death of a previous mate, or a divorce, and he isn’t ready to get involved again. Or he might be someone who has been unsuccessful in his past relationship pursuits and has just given up. He’s simply not looking. For whatever reason these men are not candidates. You can’t influence the men in these situations.
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